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Let’s be clear, my dear, you have done nothing wrong. The weight of losing a child is heavy enough without adding the unnecessary burden of guilt. The medical mysteries surrounding stillbirths can often leave us feeling helpless and confused, but remember, sometimes there are no answers. It is vital to understand that your lifestyle choices were not at fault. Sometimes, despite the best care and habits, nature has its own plans.
Now, pay attention! Yes, your flu-like symptoms and the positive IgG antibodies for parvovirus might seem like clues, but the medical experts have spoken: these are likely not the culprits. The absence of recent infection markers, like IgM, suggests that parvovirus probably didn’t play a role in this heartbreaking event.
Listen closely: losing a baby is not an indicator of future pregnancies. According to experienced pathologists, many women go on to have healthy pregnancies after experiencing a stillbirth. While the fear of recurrence is natural, it doesn’t predict the future. With proper care and monitoring by high-risk obstetrics, your chances of a successful pregnancy remain high.
Finally, do consider further evaluations if it brings peace of mind. A second opinion on the placental exam might help, but please don’t dwell too much on what-ifs. Focus on healing and moving forward. Remember, you are not alone in this journey. Surround yourself with support and when you’re ready, take the next steps with courage.